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Who knows

Who knows?

Not me.

I have no fucking clue.

No clue at all of what the hell am I doing.

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Mansplaining

Lets start with a clarification for the benefit of men:

When a woman expresses herself, when she speaks her mind, when she has doubts and or when she speaks at all she IS NOT ASKING MEN for their opinion on the subject, for an explanation, for help or for their input. So, stop telling women what to do, what to think, what to say. You are being insufferable, condescending and patronizing idiots.

Now to the issue at hand.

I wrote and posted a poem on the subject of love and freedom etc yesterday. A gentleman left me a very lengthy comment addressing the subject of the poem, but not only that, he also proceeded to,

  1. Give me advice on my love life. What bothers me the most is that he assumed that I need advice, that I want advice or that he is entitled and/or qualified to give me advice. Yes, I am expressing myself in a public manner but I am not asking for his or anybody’s advice. Why would he think that? Well, because men usually assumed their superior position when it comes to women. This attitude is condescending and quite blind to the fact that women are whole human beings equal to men.
  2. Explain to meĀ  that my words were “to severe” and what words should I use and when should I use them. I am not opposed to receiving constructive criticism but I am oppose to people who tell me what and when to write or what words I should use.
  3. Tell me how I should live y life. No this is extremely offensive, so obviously offensive that I won’t bother explaining why.
  4. Finally, and this is the most outrageous thing of all, he told me the type of men I should engage in a relationship with. Need I say more?

Big penises in dreams

Last night I had a sex dream, and it was a weird one.

I dreamed I had sex with a co-worker I met at a job training, let’s just call him C. Technically, C is not my co-worker since he doesn’t work at my same office and not even my same city, but still . . . He is in my same line of work and we trained together. It should be also noted that C expressed his interest in me but it end up in nothing much.

The two main points in my dream would be the size of his penis and the fact that after the sex he told me he had numerous sexually transmitted diseases. I woke up horrified, it was so realistic that I had to turn on the lights and make sure he wasn’t there in bed with me.

Interpretation from http://www.dreammoods.com & http://www.dreambible.com

Penis

To see a penis in your dream signifies sexual energy, power, aggression, and fertility, especially if the penis is erect.

To dream of a large penis represents you or some aspect of your personality that is very powerful, capable, or competent. Positively, it may be a sign that you feel in control successful, or more powerful than others. Feeling that you are clearly a bigger winner than other people. Negatively, it may reflect problems or other people who hold greater power than you do. A problem or competing aspect of your life that is too powerful for you.

Sex

To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually. Perhaps you need to bring the same sense of adventure into your existing relationship.

To dream that you are having sex with an ex or someone who is not your current mate denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself and are feeling a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together.

To dream of having sex with a person who has something wrong with them may represent your enjoyment of being needed. You may also be enjoying the role of being more desirable, important, or interesting than someone else.

Disease

The disease in your dream may be symbolic of some fear or tension that you are experiencing in your waking life. To dream that you have a venereal disease indicates some sort of contamination, either physical or emotional. You may feel vulnerable or victimized in a waking relationship. Alternatively, the dream signifies a fear of sex or an imbalance in sexual energy.

STDs can also be symbols associated regrets or concerns over sexual partners you’ve had. You may feel dirty, or violated.

Recurring dream, maybe

I was walking through the streets of a city that I didn’t recofnized. It was busy and bright, full of light and the air was cool and crisp. The morning was just beginning but the people were already out and about.

We were holding hands when suddenly I lost my grip and he disappeared. I never saw him again.

Then there was someone else with me, I didn’t recognize his face, but I knew him. We talked and were familiar to each other. We were looking for something or someone, but I don’t remember.

In love

I love him, I love him so,

I feel his pain as mine, he does not feel mine so,

To wait in vain for him to come,

To conquer his fear, but he does not,

He walks alone, but then I see,

He loves me so? But no, not ever, no . . . 

I endure the pain, my broken soul,

I walk away with my broken pieces nothing more,

To him I went, but no more,

To him, for him my heart yearns so much,

He knows not how deep in my soul he is?

He wonders why I don’t come back to him?

No, he knows not,

No, he wonders not,

No, his fear is his, 

No, my love is mine.