Category Archives: Dreams

We are at a table, maybe a long desk, but I cannot see the room or anything else. He sits at my left and I can see the back of his head, his neck as he looks down at my hand.
He holds my right hand over a white sheet of paper and with a pencil he contours my hand.

Dreaming of our hands is actually not as common as many other parts of the body, but when we do dream of our hands or another’s, it often seems to have an unusually strong significance.  Dreaming of hands is often a sign of self awareness, of taking control of our own life and destiny, or or of making an impact through our own actions on another person or the world around us at large.  The unusual act of actually looking at your own hands in a dream is used by some to achieve lucidity, that is, to realize that they are actually dreaming.

Our own hands in dreams are often taken for granted, many times simply functioning as tools which we use to make things happen, though we tend to focus more on the action and result than how we made this happen.  If we stop long enough to notice our hands in our dreams, it can be a sign that we are becoming aware of our own influence, or lack of it.  Dreaming of another person’s hands can often feel very intimate.  The two profound symbols of another’s hands in a positive context are of “holding hands” and of the “helping hand.”  Both of these images require us to let someone else into our lives, to be open to love, affection, consideration or assistance. For this reason, hand dreams can leave us with a lingering feeling of happiness and warmth long into the day.  These dreams may indicate that we are receiving assistance, affection or support from another in a waking life, but in many cases they are a symbolic representation that we are learning how to help our selves, that we are being kind to our selves where once we may have been a harsh judge, that we are befriending a part of ourselves that once we may have ignored or rejected, or even that we are healing a part of ourselves that once was sick and neglected.


Zombie Apocalypse

A strange kind of apocalypse, a silent one, a deserted one. The crisp cool morning air under a light blue sky as I walk down the street.
I enter a store, and then . . . suddenly a low rumble reverberates through the store. It hits me then, I was alone, utterly alone in the zombie-land.

Often when dreaming of Zombies the theme is a “Zombie Apocalypse”. You may have an apocalyptic dream when dealing with a major transition or life changing event because life, as you currently know it, is coming to an end. You may be feeling lost and unsure about the future. Some part of you has “died” and yet you still survive – the world as you know it is coming to an end, but you continue to breathe and fear what the future will bring.

The Bow

The golden queen walked down following the line of women and men holding their bow and arrows. They curtsied and bow their heads as she passed by them, then she pointed to the pole and the sack resembling a man that hung from the end of the rope. It seemed a million miles high in the sky.

I stood in the morning sun, the air crisp and cold and I looked up. The queen smiled at me and I could see doubt in her eyes. I looked up, felt the air flowing through my hair and shoot my arrow.

The rope snapped, my arrow flew true and cut it. No more doubt and no ore smiles.

To see an archer’s bow in your dream refers to the pursuit and accomplishment of your goals.
Bow And Arrow
To see a bow and arrow in your dream represents a combination of female and male energies. It may refer to your libido or some sexual energy/desire. Alternatively, it symbolizes anger, aggression, or tension. This dream symbol may also be a metaphor that you are aiming for perfection.

Bow And Arrow
To dream of a bow and arrow represents goals, plans, and preparations you are making or setting for yourself. Aiming for perfection or exactly what it is that you want.
The bow and arrow in a dream infers that the dreamer should be self-reliant, make decisions without the help of other people. All We more important if the arrow hits a bull’s-eye.
In a dream, arrows mean messages, a messenger, writings, victory over one’s enemy.

In my dreams I am a lesbian

Over the years there are some places that recur in my dreams, one of those places is a little park from where I was born. This city park looks different in my dreams that it does in reality, but it my dreams is always the same.

Last night I was there with a woman, and we were about to have sex in the park. It was pitch black and the middle of the night so I don’t remember her face, only that she was taller than me.


If you are not a lesbian in your waking life, but dream that you are a lesbian, then it signifies a union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and passion. You are comfortable with your sexuality and femininity.

Weddings and things

The strangest dream yet, of late.

I married him and he married me. Me in a white dress and flowers in my hair – how stereotypical is that? – and him in a black suit, or was it dark blue?

I don’t remember the people, I don’t remember the place, I just remember the music and I remember him, smiling with that sideways smile and holding my hand.

To dream that you are getting married to your ex suggests that you have accepted aspects of that relationship and learned from those past mistakes.

To wear a wedding dress in your dream indicates that you are evaluating and assessing your personal relationship.

Dreaming about your own wedding ceremony indicates you will soon encounter a life situation that will require you to make an important decision. Once this decision is made, it will significantly influence the course of future events.